This is my first post on blogspot EVER. I need a little bit of a cheer. That means that Renee Chow finally has something to read after her weeks of awaiting. I'm growing up. It's halfway to 30 for me now. There are so many things I feel like I have to achieve now that I'm this age. A startling one being that I should ask my first boy out. Ooo. I hear you. The others in the game are way ahead of me with their one guy and up in the last year. With that many "fish" out in the sea, I wonder what's holding me back. "Good girls always finish last"? [Ri's helpful suggestion]. But I don't really think I'm a good girl. I'm just a scaredy bat. .3. Who doesn't want to venture out and seize something that might end terribly. There are plenty of people in which I consider as "our boys" but no one has ever been my "MAN".
Ri says I need a first time relationship, to experience it. I'm still reluctant...=/ Do I have more to lose than gain or vise versa? That's the big question folks. If I go for it, I'm disrupting the natural balance and I'll probably screw up. Then the whole ruining of the balance will be in vain. There are just too many things that might go wrong, right?
Here's the list:
I might hurt people important to me
I might lose interest
I might get REJECTED
I might get dumped and become an emotional wreck
I might get dumped and become some vengeful, stalker deviant [scary]
It might be really awkward if we break up and we ever see each other again [this is actually funny xD]
I might be misunderstood [I might be accused of being a kniving bitch D:]
See, there are plenty of reasons there.
Now, pros:
I might really like that person
I will experience my first "relationship" [lol]
I might have something to look forward to enjoying everyday
I might form strong ties with this person
It might be something I remember for the rest of my life [unlikely, but possible]
It might be my life long relationship [lol, wtf. ]
I CAN BRAG THAT I ASKED A BOY OUT.
So, there we have it. I have made my first post. YAY! Will hope to post again soon. >w<
Ri says I need a first time relationship, to experience it. I'm still reluctant...=/ Do I have more to lose than gain or vise versa? That's the big question folks. If I go for it, I'm disrupting the natural balance and I'll probably screw up. Then the whole ruining of the balance will be in vain. There are just too many things that might go wrong, right?
Here's the list:
I might hurt people important to me
I might lose interest
I might get REJECTED
I might get dumped and become an emotional wreck
I might get dumped and become some vengeful, stalker deviant [scary]
It might be really awkward if we break up and we ever see each other again [this is actually funny xD]
I might be misunderstood [I might be accused of being a kniving bitch D:]
See, there are plenty of reasons there.
Now, pros:
I might really like that person
I will experience my first "relationship" [lol]
I might have something to look forward to enjoying everyday
I might form strong ties with this person
It might be something I remember for the rest of my life [unlikely, but possible]
It might be my life long relationship [lol, wtf. ]
I CAN BRAG THAT I ASKED A BOY OUT.
So, there we have it. I have made my first post. YAY! Will hope to post again soon. >w<
Signing off now,
Cman.
Cman.
4 comments:
Renee Chow is reading this post (:
Well, asking a boy out. [No, I'm not trying to sound pro == ]
Well yeah, I guess it would be cool to ask a guy out heh. You get someone to open up to and all...
But being a teenager, don't know about it..
Hypocritical and stuff because I'm never smart enough to follow what I say, but yeah don't get too attached ;3 or you may dieeeee when you fun sau ):
Oh and always be prepared they'd reject you xD
More like expect them to reject you, you fall from not as high (:
HEY, I'VE BEEN WAITING TOO.
what are your reasons for a relationship? do you really need to? maybe it's better to wait until you're sure.
besides, is it worth it? pros over cons? think before anything happens, lovely.
and i'll always be here, no need for male company. ;)
i havnt been waiting as long...>< but i waited? xDD nice topic for a first blog yeah?
-hug- i dont really wanna tell you whether you should or shouldn't. it's up to you. who knows, maybe you'll find someone special? i guess it's something that you won't know till it comes (sounds like your period O_O)
and hey xDDD i'm on the same level as you. so you're nowhere near behind <33
rawr :) ( this is lauren xD )
what do you mean by ' experience it ' ? experience love ? high school relationships ? or just a ' relationship ' in general ? xD
personally , what i think is you shouldn`t LOOK too hard for some one . i mean the best relationships are those where the couple have known each other for ages before going out , are comfortable together , are great friends ( great communication ) , are committed but still love each other , right ? looks are deceiving ( yay for cliches ) , and might rush you / cause you to make irrational decisions xD
and ( from past experiences , ) you might find some one who you think you really like . but they might not like you back ; heartache ; not good .
alternatively , you might find some one you`re not interested in , but they might get the wrong idea . and you hurt them =\ .
( as i`ve said before , i`ve looked , crashed , burned , whatever . seriously , made me an emotional wreck )
and wise to remember ; real , true love is about GIVING , not receiving ( and not just romances ; even more so with parents , brothers and sisters , friends , etc . ) . even though you may not get that much back in return , the joy should be in giving . not to mention there`s a LOT of commitment . so are you prepared yet to give so much of yourself to some one ( who may not even deserve you ? >( )
love is an amazing experience ; a ' taste of heaven ' ; but be careful , yeah ?
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